In our daily life we meet different kind of people , we read magazines , books or chatting on social media we face negative people and words or even our own ideas . Of course they hurt us . So how can we change those negative things to a good power helps us to continue our life easily ?
- First thing you must be clear minded and try to turn those things to action , for example " if you think that you're useless " . Try to prove the opposite by writing on a piece of paper everything you can do well " small or big " . Then you should know that your mind wants you to be better so that's why he sends you negative ideas just to encourage you to work on your skills more and more .
- If you're sensitive a person , don't listen to anyone complains about his life or work or anything because this is gonna reflect on your feeling .
- Be open minded by accepting any critics.
- Don't show your weak point no matter what they say
- Get rid of any word hurts you , write it on a paper then burn it or throw it on the trash .
- We all know how can words change our mood but we must try to be like a filter by keeping good words and throwing negative ones.
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I have the hardest time not paying attention to people. Their feelings really affect me.
ReplyDeleteHappiness is a state of mind. Some people suffer from illness but other than that you are right happy thoughts can transform our mood and attitude.
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So true Emy and the tip that really stood out for me was the one about not letting other people's complaints about life and work affect you. I tend to want to help everyone and feel so bad when things go wrong for them, but at the end of the day their negative energy drains me so much.
ReplyDeleteLoved this post!
ReplyDeleteI think that the problem with people is that they think happiness will come with certain things like, having money or buying car. But the truth is, happiness comes with in ourself.
We are the ones who decide whether we are going to be positive or negative. You are what you attract!
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It is so hard not to listen to others... we at times need the constructive criticism, but we don't need to be picked apart and judged for being human. These are great tips!
ReplyDeleteOy, people's negativity can really affect me, especially their words. This post is so relatable because yes, I will be happier if I learn to not let their words get to me... but it's also so difficult.
ReplyDeleteLove your simple list of achieving daily happiness. Such simple acts can do so much to your mind and soul, and we should def focus on the things that matter, not the things that bring us down. Thanks for sharing!
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DeleteThank you for sharing your personal experience with dealing with negativity. So many of us go through these experiences and can benefit from these helpful and beneficial tips.
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DeleteThis is such a relatable post as I am dealing with Hurricane Harvey right now in Houston. Thanks for the lovely reminder and keep it up!
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DeleteHaving a positive mindset is extremely helpful. It's changed my perspective a lot. Meditation helps too.
ReplyDeleteyes it helps a lot , also taking a rest from stressful things and having a special time with yourself in a silent place helps as well
DeleteI have really been trying to exclude constant negative people from my life lately and it's very therapeutic!
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DeleteI love this. Great tips, but staying away from sadness isn't really easy. But this could be tried.
ReplyDeleteyeah ! it's hard but it worths trying
DeleteI only very recently realized that you have to find reasons to be happy no matter what is going on in life. Love this!
ReplyDeleteGreat points: I loved it! To tell you the truth, not entertaining negative people is one of the best choices I have made to work towards my happiness. It does not help us thrive and be fruitful when there is constant negativity around us.
ReplyDelete"get rid of any word hurts you , write it on a paper then burn it or throw it on the trash." I love this. I should do this to help my emotions go. Thanks for sharing.
ReplyDeletei do it all the times and it works for me very well ^_^
DeleteRemoving the negative in my life has been one of the biggest blessings! I had to make a choice - even if that negative took the form of people - it needed to go!
ReplyDeleteI can't handle being around people who complain all of the time. They drag me down, it's hard to stay positive when somebody else is complaining constantly.
ReplyDeleteYes, be a filter~ I try to empathize some times, and I'm glad I have my bf to talk some sense and knock out the negativity I absorb from people around me!
ReplyDeleteOne way for me to be happy is to listen to music and get lost into a different world or even writing helps as well.
ReplyDeleteGreat post. My happy place is the library surrounded by books!
ReplyDeleteI'm just happy to see my loving children happily and another one will remove all the negativity around us.
ReplyDeletei've always been a believer in determining your own happiness, love this post!
ReplyDeleteI absolutely love this! I have always said that happiness starts with yourself. There is definitely so many things that one could do to turn anything negative into a positive and you absolutely have some awesome ideas!
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