10 Big Lessons That Learned In 2019

          I took this year off of blogging to figure out what I really want to achieve from this blog , turns out that I want to share my life experiences with others so that I can help them somehow avoid one of my past mistakes or even enjoy my life’s journey with me . 

          This may need so much time and efforts and this year I was so busy dealing with my emotions , studies and daily life challenges and I’ve never sat down to plan for my blog . This year was so full of lessons , challenges and changes .

In this post , I’m going to share with you some lessons I learned this year and how they helped me grow and be a better version of myself . 

1- If you didn’t put yourself first , no one will :

          This is the lesson that I had to learn it the hard way . I’ve always been so generous with others , I thought that if I did put them first they would do the same for me or love me  . It wasn’t how I expected it . After so many fails and disappointments I’m finally convinced that I have to put me first because nobody will love me unless I love myself first . 

2- Don't ignore what you feel :

          I used to try to shut off all my negative thoughts and all of my bad feelings and try not to let it affect me or make me cry sometimes . I was wrong , few researches on the internet I found that when you feel down ,you have to own it , let it be , don’t try to ignore it . because it may hurt you even harder and it may harm you in a way you won’t expect it at all . 

3- it’s okay to say No : 

          As I mentioned before you have to put yourself first and by that I learned how to say No to things that don’t serve me or may hurt me without feeling bad about it . It’s my right to protect myself , my feelings and my whole life . 

4- Why feel bad when someone says something bad about you ?:

           I learned that when you feel offended by others this means two things . One , your personality isn’t strong enough to protect your feelings from any attack . Two , you only get offended by the things that already exist within yourself or exist in you . By time , I developed my own way to deal with such things and I’m no longer feeling offended by anything . 

5- why average ?:

           I always lived and average life , with average people , making average effort , getting average results … Until I said one day , why average when I have the chance to make great effort and get awesome results and meet great people and live wonderful life full of small wins that will have big influence on my whole life . 

6- Don't let them fool you with “forever” : 

          I used to feel hurt every time I saw something like “ Don’t expect them to stay with you forever” I always denied the fact that nobody will last forever . They’re all leaving one day . And each one of them is there with you for a specific mission , they are there somehow to teach you a lesson . Just admit it . Besides , you no matter for how long you stayed alone surely you'll find someone who's going to be ready to be by your side . So what's important is to accept the fact that you'll have someone by your side but they won't last forever . 

7- Nothing is random in this life : 

          I always believed that everything happens for a reason in a specific time , in a specific place , with a specific person . This lesson helped me accept the fact that nothing is bad in my life and I always say it’s just a lesson that I have to learn .

 8- Where do you get your worth from ? : 

          Most of girls in my age think that their worth comes from their appearance . I use to think the same . But then I discover that my worth only comes from my productivity , creativity and how helpful I am to others . That’s why it took me two years to restart writing on my blog because I want to be as helpful as I can through my posts . 

9- It’s okay if people don’t like you  :

           I finally understood that we all are different and each one of us has his one way of visualizing the world and the others . It’s okay if someone doesn’t like me . I learned that people’s opinion or perception of me is none of my business , it’s just their own vision and nothing changes in me . 

10 - It’s okay to make mistakes :

            None of us was born flawless . We grow when we make mistakes and we learn from them. It’s not a shame if you failed , sometimes you need to take a step back so that you can move to steps forward . 

    I hope you enjoyed this post and I’d like to know what are some of the lessons that you learned in 2019 ?  

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